I have always thought that one of the primary reasons to couple is the exponential power of two. Through failed marriage and then successful marriage, I have learned more about myself than I ever would have learned on my own. I am better for it. I love it when my husband Dale and I discuss something and one or the other of us says, "Hmmm . . . I never thought of it that way!" We learn and we teach. In so doing, we grow.