The Jam: Ep. 52: Getting Over a Fight

Fights with a loved one are always a stressful experience. PeopleJam member NSchulman24 wrote a great blog post titled "How to Get Over a Relationship Fight." With help from this blog, host Bridget McManus will give you all the tips you need to reconcile your fight in a logical way.

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Tetramobile's picture

Haha. The first line says it all, lol. I think that people feel being right is more important that the relationship. She's right. Choose the battles.


heathcole's picture

Love the chicken! LOL I could not agree more about fights that are unresolved lead to resentment and grudges! It is so important to finish the fight at the onset. It is also important to fight about things that are really important. So much of life is just stuff and in a day it won't even matter!!! Good advice!


indhus's picture

Bridget is really amazing.Bridget gives very parctical advices that any one can follow and enjoy the benefits.As every one is aware the biggest hurdle in any relationship is fighting.One should know how to avoid fights.If you could not avoid a fight then you should know to get over it.


VineLikeMine's picture

This really helps cut through all the distortion and irrational emotions that are at the source of most of the fights that just seem to drag on and end up being so hard to get over. We struggle to find the will power to "Just let it go". This video does a good job of clarifying some of the most important points to remember (And put into practice!) This video will help you gain some perspective and get you thinking more clearly which will allow you to better communicate and reach a shared understanding with your partner.


smcgbug's picture

Bridget is hysterical! But what she says is soo true .... when it's over - it's over! Let it go!!! Good advice!


bluorchid's picture

great video! Money, money, money. The root of all evil, and the end to most marriage's.


nandanandhu's picture

i like the video very nuch. thanks for this oppurtunity . good job was done for all


euroni's picture

Bridget looks so great in whatever she's wearing, especially this video. You also have great content! Your video made me want to read all the blogs that you review. I think it's hard for me to get over everything... I keep remembering it. That's a godo advice for me.


foxyloxy's picture

I like this video. One of the biggest obstacles in relationships seem to be fights and even more so, getting over fights. It's really hard to let things go, especially if it was a big, hurtful fight. Sometimes, you just have to learn to get over it. Easier said than done, in my case!


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TehVixen's picture

I love this woman! She's amazing. Bridget gives the best advice. I've always been the type of person to believe that you can work through anything, if you choose to, it's just up to you. My husband and I always work through our fights. But, we do that through TALKING. We both know that we want our marriage to work, and we'll do whatever it takes. That's what relationships are about in the first place, compromise. It works wonders, I promise!


blizardbabe's picture

Thanks Bridget... Now I know what I did wrong in my last relationship, and I can change that... I don't know what I was doing with myself before People Jam and Bridget McManus but this year they're both on my "this is what I'm thankful for" list...

keep on keeping on :)


Anonymous's picture

great advise!...i so agree that the intended outcome determines how you fight.


Anonymous's picture

good job bridget. you look good as usual. good advice.


Anonymous's picture

"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - CHURCHILL,W. Still lovin your work x.


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