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The Jam: Ep. 40: Men & Commitment

We all know how it goes: you meet a man, you show interest, and all of a sudden he no longer seems into you. Did he find someone else, did he just lose interest, or is he afraid of the big "C" word -- commitment? In this Q&A episode, host Bridget McManus tries to help a PeopleJam member who is having that exact problem. So, what do you think, commitment-phobe or just not interested?

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Okay bridget, so you have friends that you meet, hang out with them and boom you're a couple? just wondered what someone would have to do to get hooked up with you? Or maybe, I said that wrong, hook up with you. :) I'm curious. You're so awesome and a lot more. ;)you're married though, so it kind of defeats the whole purpose. but hey you could still pretend if you weren't married.

Anonymous's picture

okay bridget so, you have friends that you meet, you hang out with them and then boom you're a couple? my question to you is what does a person have to do to be lucky enough to be able to hook up with you, if you weren't married? Just pretend for a sec, you weren't married and there's a woman/girl that was interested in you and wanted to hook up, what would you do? ;) Just curious. :)

Anonymous's picture

Anyone know where to source a large supply of anaphrodisiac - about 5yrs worth?

Anonymous's picture

I love this part of the show!

Anonymous's picture

Be friends first.....I need to try that. Great for you Bridget that you found your wife that way! Gives me hope!

Anonymous's picture

Great episodes. And yea there are a lot of guys that are afraid of commitment.

missfunkadilly's picture

my hubby and i were friends for years before making that plunge, and it has been well worth it. you have to know someone is going to be there for you before you take that leap, and being friends first is a great way to do that.

zoesmomknits's picture

I actually do the exact same thing! But I've found that it can be a huge problem. When you become more than friends with friends things start out awesome!!! And you're so in love!!! And you're best friends!!! And then a couple years down the road you're getting bailed out of jail because he cheated on you and you slapped him and now all of your friends take his side and then.... You have no friends because he gets custody of all of them and there's nobody to bail you out of jail. Don't date friends... That's the moral of the story.

cocokid's picture

Bridget, you're so wonderful. I am also someone that loves commitment, and I don't have time for games. The sad part is.. it's not just men that go hot and cold every five minutes. Unfortunately, women have the habit of doing the same thing. I guess I'm lucky, because I married a man that isn't only 100% committed to me, but a heck of a good guy.

TehVixen's picture

I'm happy to say that I am with someone and we are committed to each other in marriage. However, I know some friends who are having hard time when the person that they love are not wanting a committed relationship. Whether they are men or women, it's a gift when two people find each other wanting the same things.

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