I love Bridget!!!!!!!!!!

i'm just curious...how is it among lesbians or gay people--is it okay to have sex on the first date? I mean, what's your take on it?

i'm gay and I've had sex on the first date. You can't get preggers. Ask Bridget though, I bet she'd know.

-Tina

I love Bridget.

What's the big deal about having sex on a first date? That's what we're there for.

haha "Just don't have sex with men!"
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Sex on first day may not be a subject worth discussing but Bridget is capable of converting any dead subject in to a lively one. I liked the way in which the dating coach Evan advices against sex on first day. It is a fun to watch this video clip

This video didn't tell me anything that I didn't already know. Maybe it's geared more towards those who are newer to the dating scene. I loved Bridget's "skanky cat pillow" though. And I still don't understand the judging that goes on when a guy has sex with a girl. This is 2008!

Great video but I agree that it is old news for most of us but to those new on the dating scene, perhaps it is helpful. I am just glad someone like Bridget is around to give these videos for those who need it. Where were you back when I was a teen and needing advice?...lol

Love your skanky cat bed! I have one just like it! As for sex on the first date, follow your instincts. If it feels right, do it. If it feels wrong, wait. If the man/woman you sleep with on the first date never calls back, its a learning experience.

Of course no sex on the first date! I can't imagine doing so!... I guess some people just want to have sex and not have a long term relationship. For me, when I dated, I really wanted to get the know the person before deciding that I want to have sex. I think, these days, more people merely think of sex as entertainment. Maybe it's just me, but I think it's so much mofe than that.

Well, I had sex with my husband on our first date, and we've been married over a decade now. But that may have been a fluke. Definitely not for everyone!

Noo sex on the first date. I am loving your furry friend bridg

Sex on a first date in my opinion should be decided on a situation by situation basis. If you really really like the guy though, you might not want to give him your 'all' on the first date, because I think sex messes with your emotions and you will be wanting more, but the guy might be 'done' pursuing you if he's physically gotten all of you!

men's double standards are absolutely worth taking into account. i can't say i think sex on a first date is a good idea. and i love skanky cat pillows.

It doesn't matter when you have sex. It will either work out or not and you need to be grown up enough to deal with it before you choose to have sex at all. Don't let social stigma stop you just do what you're comfortable with and be safe!

So call me a prude, but I definately don't have sex on the first date. Well, I didn't, when I was actually dating. I've always lived by the saying.. "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?" Because it's true. A lot of guys pretend that they're genuinely interested, but they're really into you because they want to get into your pants. It's cruel, but it's true. Just don't give it up on the first date. At least wait 'til the second, just kidding!

I think it's all about the person. If you feel it go for it. They're right about being able to handle it. Not enough cell phone minutes, haha.