Why is it so hard to save money? I try and try and never get ahead.

Should I tell my friend her husband's gay? My boyfriend and I are friends with this straight couple in their fifties, and whenever he has a few too many at one of our parties, he flirts with us like crazy. His wife's a good friend of ours, and we're wondering - should we tell her her king is a queen, or risk having her find out the hard way?\r\n

I’m a 28 year old gay man whose been dating the same person for over a year now. My boyfriend and I get along really well and are wicked attracted to each other, but we\'re both lazy when it comes to being in charge sexually. We\'re both dyed-in-the-wool bottoms, and have argued more than once about who has to do all the work. Every once in a while I get motivated, but I love to lie around and be serviced. Problem is, so does he. If we could have sex without either one of us having to move, we\'d be in heaven! It gets really bad if we\'ve been partying (the laziness, I mean), which we kind of do a lot. Do you have any suggestions? \r\n