I am new to PeopleJam, but after reading several blogs and watching Bridget McManus (who I love) on The Jam, I am convinced that this is a great place to seek advice, which I find myself to be in desperate need of. Without giving my entire life away, I am a young woman that has been in a relationship with another for a few years now. All of our exchanges of "I love you" and seeing each other as often as possible convince me that we are generally stable, but when sexual activity becomes involved... that's where there is trouble.