I've lived a controversial life.  I also see the world through different eyes than most I run across.   As I've been invited to write here as a featured blogger after someone at this site read my blog, I've decided to just jump in and begin with a topic that seems mild to me, but pushes lots of buttons.   I've decided my first post will be inspired by this post by Dr. Mark Goulston about couples who have differing libidos and what to do about it.