MEMBER: Dr. Jackie Black
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I like to believe that I inspire and encourage people to risk again; to move through the challenges and pitfalls of dating, loving and building long-lasting, committed relationships in today's fast-paced world. My mission is to support and mentor you, whether you are single and never-married, divorcing or divorced, widowed or in a committed relationship that is challenging and just doesn’t met your needs yet! Together, I can support you to build and maintain conscious, committed and lasting relationships through learning and practicing essential relationship skills; and becoming emotionally aware. After many years in corporate America I returned to school to earn a Ph.D. in psychology and now spend my time doing what I love -- helping people all over the world build strong relationships.
I left the corporate world, started my counseling practice and never looked back! My specialty was Grief and Loss and Life-threatening and Chronic Illness. Then, after a number of years in private practice and through a confluence of events, I returned to school to study coaching; received my certification; and launched my Relationship Coaching business that rapidly grew to include clients from throughout the United States and around the world. You're welcome to visit my website.
I've been fortunate in that I've become quite well known for this and not only in the USA. My programs attract clients from all over the world and I really enjoy talking to people from all nationalities and coaching them through their own particular relationship issues.
I am frequently cited in Cosmo US and UK; Women's Health Magazine; Men's Health Magazine; Maxim; Pregnancy; Self Magazine, and on Match.com.
In addition to my Individual and Couples Relationship Coaching business, I facilitate private Relationship Coaching Groups and Programs (www.DrJackieBlack.com; I am on the faculty of Coach Training Alliance (www.CoachTrainingAlliance,com), one of the top 10 coach training organizations in the world; and I am a mentor coach to coaches and other private practice professionals (www.MentorCoachingCenter.com).
My first book, Meeting Your Match: Cracking the Code to Successful Relationships is due to be on bookstore shelves, Amazon.com and BarnesAndNoble.com in the fall of 2007.
At the same time we are launching Dr. Jackie's Ideal Match Coaching Club (www.IdealMatchCoachingClub.com), a destination membership web site for singles who are committed to dramatically increase their ability to find that special person; and singles and couples who are committed to build long term, strong and stable loving relationships.
I distribute a monthly Relationship Tips Sheet to men and women in over 38 countries. Covering a variety of topics, my insightful articles can be found in both newspaper and magazine columns; and syndicated on the Internet. I also seem to have become a radio personality along the way.
I love working on the radio so much that in addition to being a frequent guest expert on terrestrial and Internet radio shows, I've developed a high-content and fast-paced weekly PodCast that can be found on iTunes focusing on current, and sometimes controversial, relationship-driven issues (www.RelationshipTalkPodcast.com).
My experience as a TeleClass leader allows me to offer several highly effective relationship coaching teleclasses and programs from time to time (teleclasses are all conducted over the phone).
I'm not an academic, although I do have an academic background. And I also have extensive business and life experience that in some places is seen as a unique combination! My business career includes more than 15 years in the corporate world with key positions in marketing and management.
Several years after I launched my own brand, I was President of BuildingYourIdealPractice.com and the Director of Practice Development for the Relationship Coaching Institute. This involved providing training and support to entrepreneurs and sole practitioners building their private practices. I've also done my share of lecturing in an educational role.
I'm very much a 'do-er' and I am a member of the International Coach Federation, The Foundation of Coaching, and the Relationship Coaching Institute. I'm active in the Girlfriend Factor and the Executive Women's Golf Association (I don't have time to get bored!).
Outside Interests:
Because I am passionate about my work, I do spend a lot of time on it, but I'm almost as passionate about golf and, because I'm fortunate enough to live in Sunny California, I am surrounded by lots of fantastic golf courses! You can be sure that you'll find me out there perfecting my swing at any opportunity!
I have two wonderful grown-up children, both of whom I count as friends and whose opinions I value; and an amazing four-legged companion who thinks she is a lap dog weighing in at 110 lbs (7stone 9lbs).
After my first marriage, I spent quite a long time as a single person; then I met the love of my life, Mark. Given my profession, he had to put up with my efforts to 'do things by the book' (my book!) when we first met, however, I soon realized that sometimes, when a relationship is right, you just go with it. Sadly Mark died in 2005 after losing his battle with cancer, but I will always treasure the rich and rewarding years we had together.
Testimonials
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Blogs
How to Have a Successful, Committed Relationship
Friday, April 11, 2008 - 18:09Your life will not be 'better' if you are in a rel0 CommentsLiving a Life in Alignment With Your Vision, Values and Life Purpose
Friday, April 11, 2008 - 18:06We create our life and our love life through our b0 Comments5 Simple Steps to Making and Honoring Agreements and Committments
Tuesday, February 26, 2008 - 20:090 CommentsStaying Committed in Today’s World
Wednesday, February 6, 2008 - 19:55In the U.S. we inherited a model for marriage that has remained largely unchanged for over 50 years.2 CommentsEffective Contact Etiquette: When You Meet Someone You Want to See or Talk to Again
Wednesday, February 6, 2008 - 19:50Contact etiquette is essential if you date once in a while or are actively dating to find your ideal2 CommentsSeek Romance Internally
Tuesday, February 5, 2008 - 16:45It’s V-Day again! Have you ever stopped to consider where the most romantic places on Earth are? The2 CommentsHonor and Respect Your Partner’s Feelings As If They Are Your Own
Tuesday, January 29, 2008 - 20:34I want to focus on an essential relationship behavior that you will want to practice and use frequen0 CommentsDivorce is a Legitimate Choice
Tuesday, January 29, 2008 - 20:19For many men and women in a wide variety of situations, divorce is a legitimate and appropriate choi0 CommentsOn Being Single in 2008
Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 19:40Did you know that there are 100+ million single men and women in the United States today? Being sin0 CommentsSettling, Compromising & Negotiating: What are the Differences?
Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 19:36Too often we think we have successfully compromised or negotiated an issue with a loved one and, in2 CommentsReflections for Personal Development in the New Year
Wednesday, December 19, 2007 - 17:57It's hard to believe that 2007 is almost over and 2008 is arriving very soon. The end of the y0 CommentsDo You Know When to Stop Dating Someone?
Thursday, December 13, 2007 - 15:13If you date men or women long past the point when you are still exploring whether or not s/he is you0 CommentsSaying "No" is not rejection.
Thursday, December 13, 2007 - 15:07Why do you suppose that intelligent, capable and otherwise successful men and women do not tell the0 CommentsThe Fear of Being Left Alone
Friday, December 7, 2007 - 20:23Has anyone ever told you s/he needed “some space?” All too often men and women are threatened b4 CommentsAre Solitude and Loneliness Different?
Friday, December 7, 2007 - 20:12The notions of solitude, loneliness and being alone are often confusing or misunderstood, especially5 CommentsPlan a Date To Go Places and Do Things You Enjoy
Monday, November 26, 2007 - 16:10When you plan a date, plan to participate in interests and activities that you enjoy. Invite someon0 Comments5 Essential Parts of a Committed, Long-term, Primary Relationship
Monday, November 26, 2007 - 16:08The nature and structure of a committed relationship is related to the agreements and commitments ea2 Comments5 Areas of Readiness for Successful Committed Relationships
Tuesday, November 20, 2007 - 18:41A successful, committed relationship depends upon being ready physically, emotionally, financially,0 CommentsResolving Conflict
Monday, November 19, 2007 - 23:34It takes common sense, patience and practice to effectively resolve conflict. If you remember that2 CommentsUnderstanding Conflict
Monday, November 19, 2007 - 23:32Conflict is inevitable and a normal part of life. Healthy conflict can lead to positive changes in0 CommentsInternet Dating: 8 Tips to Meet on the Internet and Move to the Telephone
Monday, November 19, 2007 - 23:291. Don’t reveal specific information that could allow someone to personally identify you. 2. Move0 CommentsInternet Dating: 8 Simple and Effective Ways to Start
Monday, November 19, 2007 - 23:261. Write a great profile that will get you found and get responses from people who are your ideal ma0 CommentsHow Do Boundaries Work?
Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 18:48We learn to set boundaries to protect two different parts of Self. Boundaries for our Outside Self,0 CommentsWhat Are Boundaries and Why are They Important?
Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 15:50Boundaries define a person's sense of self. Setting boundaries makes others feel safe around you and6 CommentsRepairing Hurt Feelings and Shaken Trust
Thursday, November 8, 2007 - 18:11There may be occasions during your relationship when you hurt your Honey’s feelings or s/he hurts yo0 CommentsKeep That Spark Alive!
Thursday, November 8, 2007 - 18:07In our demanding world filled with multiple priorities, responsibilities and distractions, everythin0 CommentsDating--Who Pays?
Thursday, November 8, 2007 - 16:27Mature men and women who are dating have many questions about money. The most frequent question from2 CommentsInternet Dating Etiquette
Wednesday, September 26, 2007 - 19:17Internet dating is becoming more popular among singles throughout the world. There is a disturbing a0 CommentsStop Acting from Fear in Your Relationships
Monday, September 17, 2007 - 20:03Recently a workshop participant reported that the gentleman she is dating is a great person, he take2 CommentsStaying Committed in Today’s World
Thursday, September 6, 2007 - 22:07We have powerful desires to belong and to connect with a special someone. In the U.S. we inherited2 CommentsUnacceptable Dating Behavior is Always Unacceptable
Thursday, August 16, 2007 - 16:19The dating process is one of the most universally perplexing processes. Dating confounds even the m2 Comments
Discussions Started
Comments
- Relationship Freedom... posted on Feb 15, 2008 in response to the blog Staying Committed in Today’s World
- Stranger Danger... posted on Feb 9, 2008 in response to the blog Effective Contact Etiquette: When You Meet Someone You Want to See or Talk to Again
- Be Original... posted on Feb 9, 2008 in response to the blog Seek Romance Internally
- From a Wise Woman... posted on Jan 16, 2008 in response to the blog Settling, Compromising & Negotiating: What are the Differences?
- Are Men Afraid of Commitment?... posted on Dec 10, 2007 in response to the blog Are Men Afraid of Commitment?
- It is NOT the Gift: It is the Thought!... posted on Dec 10, 2007 in response to the blog Holiday Shopping: It's not the Gift, Stupid.
- Oooops....... posted on Dec 10, 2007 in response to the blog Are Solitude and Loneliness Different?
- When Your Gut Says - This Won't Go Anywhere!... posted on Dec 10, 2007 in response to the blog Are Solitude and Loneliness Different?
- Examining Fears and Attitudes... posted on Dec 9, 2007 in response to the blog The Fear of Being Left Alone
- One moody bitch.... posted on Dec 7, 2007 in response to the blog Are Solitude and Loneliness Different?


