Video games and exercise have traditionally been the ultimate paradox. Nintendo releases of Wii Fit, the gaming Mom's version of Cheerios, this week as an attempt to play your way to fitness. For most people, overweight kids, pimply-faced teenagers and zoned out boyfriends and husbands are synonymous with video games. Nintendo is targeting moms and non-traditional gamers with Wii Fit.

Want to know the best way to calm down an angry woman? Have sex with her. That's right. Get her into bed ASAP. I'm not talking about garden variety anger or frustration. I mean fire breathing, beyond reason angry. There's no discussing, no placating- you just have to do something. Of course, the woman in question should be your wife or girlfriend and ideally enjoys sex when she's in a "good mood."

There's an ever rising population of aggro men in this country and women have no one to blame but themselves. Men are hurt, angry and confused- even if they're unaware- and with good reason. "Men aren't good at expressing emotions." "Men only talk about sports." "Men need to be more sensitive." We've all heard these platitudes and they're grade-A bullshit.

The rat race. It's inescapable. It's a jungle out there and the big cats are forever sharpening their claws. Even if you make a conscious effort to stay out of the fray, it's almost impossible not to be sucked in.

No excuses. I hate dealing with numbers and I underestimated how difficult filing would be. I worked in 3 different states last year. Also, I didn't file the last 2 previous years because I earned under $15,000 and it was my passive aggressive way of protesting the Bush administration's policies.

Springtime is here, at last and it's time to wake up from the long winter's nap. Clear

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