MEMBER: Kelly Carlin-McCall
Experience
Some thoughts.
Having spent the last twenty years discovering how to move out from the shadow of fame and into the light of self-definition I have learned a lot. Like who the Hell I really want to be everyday.
Growing up in the shadow of parents who have attained great things has made my journey of self-discovery an interesting one. Watching my dad for the last forty five years make thousands of people laugh and think set the bar rather high for what "success" was supposed to mean. I think I am finally getting over that and getting over myself. Thank God.
My deep and personal understanding of this unique path, coupled with my passion for helping others, has brought me to the work I now do. In addition to being a writer, performer and now a film maker, I am a life coach for creative types, women in the entertainment industry, and anyone trying to get out of the box of having to live up to unrealistic and untrue standards within themselves. I love helping people find their way out of the shadow of fame.
I understand the difficulty of self-definition in a culture that expects you to be some one you are not. I have never been a girlie girl, or a brainiac, or the stoner girl - most of the time I was some kind of combination of all of them and more. Being okay with who I am has become a great place to relax into.
I thrive on challenging the status quo that lives within and without us all. As a coach this is my passion - questioning the assumptions we make about ourselves, each other, this world and the past, present and future.
I relish the opportunity to watch others discover, claim and declare their true selves to the world. There is no better day job than this.
Only with great self-compassion and fierce courage can any of us finally claim the life we are here to have. Don't you know it.
Some facts.
Masters in Depth Psychology
Professional Coaching Certification - CPCC with Coaches Training Institute
CTI Leadership Program
Inspired On Demand mentor coach
Awakened Wisdom Experience associate
20+ years working in the Entertainment Industry
Writer and performer of autobiographical essays/short films/one-person show
Working on a documentary about the American Dream
Lived in Los Angeles almost my whole life.
Love to dance, laugh, create and be in nature.
Am happily married to husband Bob for over ten years, and has two silly, goofy dogs - Jenny and Ned
Some influences. In no particular order.
Carole Burnett • Ansel Adams • the Pacific Ocean • Ken Wilber • Georgia O’Keefe • the film American Beauty • Frida Kahlo • the Greek Goddess Persephone • Elvis Costello • The Scottish Countryside • Jungian/Archetypal Psychology • My mother Brenda Florence Carlin • Elephants • Karen Findley • Monty Python • Zen Buddhism • Gene Kelly • Joseph Campbell • Hafiz • Lily Tomlin • U2 • Meryl Streep • Sierra Nevada Mountains • My father George Denis Carlin • The Beatles • New York City • Van Morrison • Alan Watts • the music of the 60s/70s • Madonna (the singer and the archetype) • Independent filmmakers • Anne Lamott • Early morning stillness • R&B/Funk dancing • Dream work • Sinead O’Connor • Langston Hughes • Harriet Tubman • Wallace Stegner • Alfred Stieglitz • Mozart • Songbirds • Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Deep Gratitude
Wednesday, June 25, 2008 - 20:07Well, I knew that we were all connected, and I knew that we were all love, but I guess I really didn't fucking know it until now. I am blown away by all of you, all that have sent wishes about my father, about my loss, everything. Know that it has kept me afloat these last few days. At some point I will be replying to those of you who I knew personally at some point in my life. And for the rest of you. Keep speaking your truth, standing up against the bullshit, and carrying forward the torch my father lit inside of you. Best to you all,2 CommentsCreating from Nothing
Wednesday, September 19, 2007 - 23:27Don't know why, but I felt pulled to show up here this morning. Usually I have something that is jus0 CommentsPrincess Diana, a fox, and the Miracle of Mindfulness
Sunday, August 26, 2007 - 23:21I was watching some TV earlier today, and it was mentioned that it has been ten years since Princess1 CommentsMoving from the space around me
Friday, August 24, 2007 - 23:39I have begun to learn that there is much information in the space that lives between all of us - tha4 CommentsKnow Thyself
Friday, August 24, 2007 - 22:19Creativity is a great path to self discovery. In writing, painting, house building or what ever it1 CommentsIn the Presence of Pure Love
Friday, August 17, 2007 - 03:12Last Monday night I got to do something I had never done before...meet a swami from India. For the1 Comments
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I was sorry to hear about your recent loss and wish you nothing but success, love and happiness during the remainder of your continued journey.
I read your father's jokes almost every day.
A 40-something Irish guy from NJ
Hi Kelly,
I knew you years ago when I worked for your dad at Carlin Productions. I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. George was the most wonderful person and even in the most stressful of workdays, he was a constant in our lives and a calming influence. I will never forget his kindness and compassion. It would be so lovely to hear from you.
My sincerest condolences, dear Kelly.
Carolyn Levey (now Steyn)
carolyn.b@absamail.co.za
Condolences on the passing of your father. A remarkable man who changed how comedy was presented and accepted in America. It was heartening to read that you have a happy personal life and whatever traumas being the daughter of a celebrity and iconoclast you hjave found your way through.
I did not agree with your father on socual issues but I admired his honesty and ability to cut through the crap and take a unique look at the world.
Sincerely,
John Frank
sorry to hear about your father, he was a genius of comedy and truth, he will be sorely missed
Condolences,
I have been and will always be a fan of your fathers, since he first appeared on LaughIn. I loved his honesty about life, and polital views.
I know you have many fond memories of him and your mother and glad that you have over come the challenges of childhood.
Wishing you the brightest of Blessings
Donna
Your father made me laugh at the world.
I have watched and laughed with your father my entire life. He made me think too. What higher praise could one give to a person who was in the entertainment industry.
Please know how much he will be missed by so many.
And one day soon, though it probably doesn't seem possible right now, your memories of him will bring more smiles and comfort than tears. Until then, stay strong and mourn him as he deserves.
Wishing your family well..
I read your father's jokes almost every day.
A 40-something Irish guy from NJ
Love Ya George
My deepest condolences on the loss of your father. He was pure genius! Wishing you and your family light and love -- Michelle
Our deepest condolences on loss of your father. I have been a fan of his since the 1970s and I marveled at his brilliance and honesty about life.
I had the opportunity to meet you father once in Houston after one of his shows, he was a great man and an inspiration to me. My deepest condolences. We have lost a great man.
I will find it harder to go through life without those moments of levity that only your Father could offer. My condolences & love- Marc
I am expressing sympatahies to you and your family. Your dad was funny. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa
Sorry to hear about your father. I've been a weeping wreck all morning. I know this probably isn't the place to do so, but I had to post something somewhere where others were feeling it as well. I've never had a celebrity death affect me in this way before. I guess now I know how people felt when Elvis, or Lennon, or JFK died....
R.I.P. George, and my sincerest condolences to you Kelly.
Beau
Sorry to hear about your father. I've been a weeping wreck all morning. I know this probably isn't the place to do so, but I had to post something somewhere where others were feeling it as well. I've never had a celebrity death affect me in this way before. I guess now I know how people felt when Elvis, or Lennon, or JFK died....
R.I.P. George, and my sincerest condolences to you Kelly.
Beau
Dear Ones,
I can't begin to tell you how touching it is to hear your words. Thank you for the support, and the sharing of your love for him. It makes it all a bit easier to take.
I am heart broken, and yet my heart knows that his life touched so many.
Blessings,
Kelly Carlin-McCall
I lost my father not so long ago, and one of the things I remember best about him was the way he laughed uproariously at your father's comedy. My Mom didn't care for me hearing some of George's routines. My Dad was OK with it... thank you Dad.
Rest In Peace George
Rick in Canada
Mrs. Kelly Carlin-McCall
My heart goes out to you at this time, I am sadden by the news today about, your father, Mr. George Carlin.
I could watch his shows over and over again. He can make you laugh and then again make you think of how true
of the things he commented on. He is a incrediable man. He will be missed very much.
I know that there is nothing that I can say that can make up for your loss. But, just remember he has alot of
fans.
From my Heart to yours,
Sincerly,
Debbie
Kelly, I went to several of your father's performances and LOVED every minute! My thoughts are with you. I am sure that everything good in him is living in you and for all of his fans, that is a comforting thought. Your Dad ROCKED!
Tracy Shugar
Dear Ms Carlin-McCall,
I lost my father in 1992, and my father-in-law this past June 2nd. The pain remains, but knowing that others care helps to heal and make the days bearable. I pray that you and your family will keep your dad close in your hearts - to laugh even if you're sad, and to cry even if you're happy. Your dad was a great man - he did and said more than most people will only do in their minds. He made people laugh, and walked on the wild side when some words were not used outloud. I admire him for doing and saying what he thought was right. You're very fortunate to have so many people share their thoughts about your dad in order for you to see other sides of him that you may not have on your own. God Bless you and your family. Hugs, Barb B-Green Bay WI
To the Carlin family,
My condolences to you. I enjoyed hearing and seeing George's acts which made me laugh - and cry. He will be missed. I'm sure George and Brenda are having a blast wondering what all the hupla is about. God bless you all. My deepest sympathies.
Rick, NY, NY
Dear Kelly and Family,
Your father touched our lives on so many levels. My 3 boys adored him as The Conductor in the Thomas the Tank Engine series. Both my husband and I grew up listening to his comedy over the years and we had the pleasure of seeing him last November. Our heart goes out to you during this difficult time. May you find some peace and solace in knowing he touched so many of us throughout the world and brought us joy and enlightenment in many ways. Blessings to you and your family during this difficult time.
Sorry to hear about your father. I just read the blog you did on your mother and it was so touching. I know you will find peace. Thank You.
As an old hippie/ Lutheran I have found spiritual strength in many varied sources. Your father is one of those sources. I am glad you have, also, learned the positive spiritual path from your father like I did from mine. So many people have missed that in their lives. I am glad you are attempting to fill the void.
Bless you and your family like your father blessed me.
Sharon
I loved how your father thought "outside the box" and saw the humor in the simplest things. He was a great healer because he made us laugh at ourselves and at society so that we didn't take either one too seriously. He was a true genius and will be missed.
J.Hoffman
Boynton Beach, FL
Kelly,
Somewhere, somehow I got a tape of your father. I can't even pinpoint when I first listened to it but I loved it. I had been studying in England on my junior year abroad and had returned to the US over spring break. During my break I phoned this girl and asked her out on our first date. We drove down to from Indianapolis to Bloomington, IN and I popped that tape in and we listened the whole way laughing uncontrollably. In typical fashion my parents were aghast to learn that I'd played something so vulgar for a "date." This Sunday June 29th that girl and I will have been married 11 years and now have 2 kids. 14+ years later I still don't think my parents care much for the tape, but my wife and I still think back to that day and laugh as much now as we did then. Your dad will always have a special place near and dear to us. We wish you and your family much strength in your time of loss.
Regards,
Michael & Jodi
Your father was brilliant. I read an essay of yours last year and I believe his brilliance is also within you.
I lost a very intelligent, witty (and painfully difficult at times) father a number of years ago. The amazing thing is, as time goes on, I've managed to remember the better times and his funny moments. I don't know what kind of a Dad Mr.Carlin was, but I hope that you have the same experience, remembering him at his best as time goes on.
Peace to you and yours, not just during this difficult time, but always.
Dear Kelly,
Our most sincere condolences on the loss of your dad. My husband and I grew up with him too. He was a constant in our conversations and always made us laugh at the human in all of us. We will miss him.
Linda & Steve
Your father was a brillant and funny man. I had the great pleasure to see him perform a few times. He will be missed deeply. I only wish I would have had the great honor to meet him.
Geoff
Omaha, NE
I woke up with tears in my eyes.
I will say a prayer every night.
With all of my love and respect,
Charles
I wouldn't be the person I am today if it went for your father's experiences and his abillity to share them. Fortunately my sun never did explode and I came back to earth before it was too late. Hopefully my daughter will learn enough from my past experiences to avoid self destruction and still make people laugh.You are a true survivor.
The Carlin spirit will live on forever.
PKING
I listened to your dads albums in the 70's with my dad, making sure mom didn't know, and we laughed our butts off as quietly as we could. It's a great memory.
I'm sorry for your loss. Your dad will be missed by millions. But what a comfort it must be to know how much laughter he brought to so many for so long.
Thanks for the place to post this message.
Mike S
High Point, NC
Your father was one amazing and talented man. I grew up along with his jokes and
his intelligent way of dealing with all of the world and life..Always made one think..... Blessings to you at this time........
Nina:)
Dear Kelly Carlin McCall- your father was a comedic genius. At the same time, not without serious cost to you. I am so moved by your story 'The Day the Sun Exploded" that I can't tell you. You are very strong, know that the best of him lives on in you...
Jindra C., Washington DC
My husband has been sitting watching George on Y/tube since he heard the news. Sad news but take solace in the fact that he bought something very special to the world; the gift of laughter. Condolences to you and George's extended family and friends.
Francesca and Lauro
I loved your father so much; the way he based the establishment, any kind of establishment. My condolences to you. Uma Simon
I loved your father so much; the way he based the establishment, any kind of establishment. My condolences to you. Uma Simon
He is an inspiration to anyone who appreciates comedy and will live on forever via cds, dvds, audios, tapes, records, and books.
Your dad has been a piece of our hearts and thoughts for many years. Along with so many millions of others, we offer our hearts and thoughts to you and your family. We grieve but mostly we are grateful to have had your dad on this journey with us.
Debby & Bob
Chapel Hill, NC
Our most heartfelt feelings go out to you, Kelly. The one skit of your dad's that truly made me wet my pants was when he was talking about his dog and cat and their "intimacy" problem, and then he showed their picture and said that it was on his Christmas card. I cried, my teeth fell out, and yep, I peed my pants. THE most hilarious moment. On the more serious side he had a "just off center" way of looking at the world . . . he will be missed. K and S
He was my hero. I define 'hero' in the context that he had a level of rare authenticity which embraced the full experience of being human; the all of it...he observed everything...
Thank you for sharing your blog...your mentoring/coaching is helping folks realise clarity in their own lives. Your Dad connected with so many folks with his ability to communicate with a gleen in his eye. He gave us the ability to have fun peeling back the layers of the cultural onion!
Similarly, you help folks peel back the level of the 'onion' in your own unique way.
Respectfully,
Laura M. Chegwidden
My daughter woke me last night to tell me of your dad's passing-I passed my lifelong love of his humor on to her. I am so sorry for your loss. I read, "The Day the Sun Exploded", and shared it with my daughter as well. We experienced that, too, living with her dad. My heart goes out to you. Jane Henderson
You're about to get a million replies from multiple different message boards.
Your father was the best thinker to ever live and he will be missed.
For some reason I have always paid attention to everything your Dad had to say. Just the other day I caught an interview of him stating that the only regret of his life was the effect that his drug use had on your life.
I am sorry for your loss. I love your journey of self discovery and how it leads you to help others.
I think of the trees and how simply they let go, let fall the riches of a season, how without grief (it seems) they can let go and go deep into their roots for renewal and sleep....Imitate the trees. Learn to lose in order to recover, and remember that nothing stays the same for long, not even pain, psychic pain. Sit it out. Let it all pass. Let it go. May Sarton Poet and writer
George Blobe
gblobe@orerentals.com
Your father "coached" us as a society to look at our frailties, inconsistencies, weaknesses and through his humor, often embarrassed us into being better human beings. His talent and view of life are much appreciated.
I am glad to see that those traits of challenging our perceptions are carried on in your work if only on an individual to individual basis. Our hearts and thoughts go out to everyone who love the very unique soul that is your father.
Kelly -- I've never been saddened more by the loss of someone I haven't met. Love to you and your family.
Lon
Austin, TX
What an inspirational person you are as a child of addictive, amazing, courageous, and yet tragic parents. Your father's work and persona touched so many, but his addiction clearly affected you in a profound and personal way. That you can talk about him and your mother with such love and forgiveness is in inspiring to all of us who have been affected by addiction. Thank you, Buddha bless, and continue the trudge that road to happy destiny.
My condolences to you. You father has been such a great inspiration to so many and no doubt to you as well. He will be greatly missed. Much love to you on your journey through life. Namaste
SA Hall, Athens, GA