If you ever said "poor me" read this book. Its a journey of a girl growing into a woman in body and mind, and its really a transformative book. When ever I think of a book like this, I think about it scaling it out to the world wide population....if everyone took this advice, would the world be a better place? if the answer is yes, then its worth its weight in gold. If its more of a "well it will work for some people, but others would be screwed" then its trash. This book is worth its weight in gold. With all the garbage blasted by the media of our lives, we have to overcome what we've been made to be, and love who we actually are. Tone out the distractions, this one will change your life.