Like the prior reviewer, I finally felt like I was not alone when I found this book. I originally found it at the library and had to buy it because I identified my child in this book. It didn't help me figure out what to do about my "sprited child" but it helped me see and accept and feel better about my spirited child. I recommend this book highly to any parent who feels like they are fighting an uphill battle with their child and don't know why it has to be so difficult.