Stationed in Iraq, it's not like you get to go out and meet women. When we finally get a break, it's comforting to find a sweet girl to talk to. I ran across this book, because I was extremely cautious about dating online. This book put me in a comfort zone enough, that I can actually get online and talk to different people. After talking to this wonderful girl for a year, she became my wife. Sounds crazy, but I owe it all to this book. It's amazing how a book can encourage you not to be scared to try something new. This book is for people who has phobias about talkng or meeting people online. You learn what to do and what not to do.