SarahMichigan's review of: Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert

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Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert by John Gottman
John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage by using rigorous scientific procedures to observe the habits of married... read more



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Posted on January 12, 2009 2:08 PM PST
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I had taken a brief marriage improvement class with my husband where we were introduced to Gottman's "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" idea; this is the concept that four behaviors are major predictors of success or failure of a marriage. They are: withdrawal (stonewalling),criticism, contempt and defensiveness. While it's good to know what to avoid, it's better to know what to do. That's where the "Seven Principles" come in; instead of just warning you away from negative behaviors, the book helps you identify positive behaviors that can strengthen your marriage.
When I saw this book at the library, I knew I had to pick it up and give it a read. One of my favorite parts of the book were the case studies, where he puts the principles into story form with a variety of couples, and shows how these can work in a real life situation. I find that really helpful. If you're a slow reader, you may enjoy listening to it as a book on CD instead.

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tiffanyluvsnick's picture

Thank you for your comment. A lot of times it's hard to tell if a book like this will be helpful or not, and I appreciate you explaining in detail what you liked about the book. I really enjoy reading, and may give this book a try if I see it in the library.


VineLikeMine's picture

Thanks for providing the review.
Before reading it, I just didn’t know where to begin when I was looking for some insightful resources to address and overcome some of the challenges and hard times that I have experienced with my romantic partner.

Although I am not married, I am in a committed relationship and this book sounds like it could be very helpful for this point in our lives.

This really helps navigating the book section a little easier!


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