I agree with you on this. Men think it's manipulative, because they fail to realize that most of the scammers online are men. They look for lonely women, willing to go for anyone that gives them slightest bit of attention. When all is said and done, they take everything the woman has to offer and then some, pretty much ruining her life. I've seen it happen so many times. I met my husband online, and we talked on the phone, through e-mail, and an army support group site for a little over a year before we decided to take things to next level. You're right, it's super smart to take things slow. On the internet, people can be whatever they want. Whether it's a lie or true.

Yeah, I've read this and it's geared more towards women and heterosexual couples. I wonder if there are any books like this specifically for men/gay men. It's a whole other ball game with us.