I would have to agree with the other reviewers. Although the title was like a slap in the face, I knew it would be a book that was pretty blunt but I figured it was going to be a good book to read for personal self improvement. The author is rather preachy and has certain catch phrases that drive you crazy. I normally read books straight through but this book took me over a month to read. Each time I piked it back up with hopes it would get better and it didn't. Don't waste your time or money purchasing this book.