I purchased this book not to long ago when I realized my husband and I were unable to meet eye to eye on a certain subject which happened to be driving me crazy being I was positive I was right, I also needed the help in understanding if it was I or my husband making the mistakes. Well this book helped me in understanding my mistakes, not so much his but by me understanding my everday mistakes I was able to stop are disagreements from turning into an all out ugly debate. I don't know if were ever going to see eye to eye on this specific subject but I do know how to understand me a bit more, I'm still trying to get my hubby to read this book. Hopefully someday he will. If not him, I would recommend this book to everyone and anyone being we all make mistakes.