Before reading this book I honestly didn't think love was for me. I thought its for the movies, and older people who found spouses with morals. But as we all know, life is about what you put into it, so I decided to read this and see what made sense. I was not in a relationship at the time, and I muddled through reading it because its aimed at women, but I realized the character flaws in myself that caused me to turn away women I would find attractive, that I would find funny, smart etc. By the end of reading this I actually had a date! It was because I let myself be who I really am in front of women, and that is what makes this book so great. It helps you get everything out on the line and really change your perception of things.