My therapist suggested this book to me last year. I never thought I was a woman that loved too much, I just thought I was a woman that loved enough. But when you let yourself love someone more than you love yourself or they love you - yes you are loving too much. I like this book because it talks about real people and their relationship experiences. A lot of woman love too much for many difference reasons, it can be their past, their families, other relationships, etc. I think a lot of different type of woman can relate to this and gain something from it. I have since loaned the book to two totally different woman and I know they have gained something. CHeck it out.