I loved this book. It was given to me by my mother on my birthday about ten years ago. I read it, thought it was hilarious. I also took it seriously if someone really followed it to get married. It has basic rules everyone should know and some do seem old-fashioned. That doesn’t mean it does not apply today. One rule that stands out for me, if he doesn’t call by Wednesday, you aren’t “available” Friday or Saturday night. No excuses or reasons—just “I have plans”. Even if you have to wash your hair, clean the car, those are plans. I don’t think that is manipulative or playing mind games. It is like starting a new job, if you work through lunch and stay late, they always seem to expect it. The book is a plan with rules and if followed, it could work. Other factors would have to be considered with someone new before attempting the plan all the way to the altar. You could always flip the advice to get rid of someone you don’t like. It’s a good book and I recommend it.