Relationships don't end becaus

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Relationships don't end because you stop loving each other,

they end because you can't stop hating each other.

When I have asked partners if they had the choice of getting their way in their relationship or never having to have that ice pick under the rib cage feeling when you hate the person you love, but you they couldn't have both, the majority of couples choose the latter.

What do you do when you are hating the one you love? More importantly, what do you do to bring back the loving feelings?

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I don't necessarily agree with that relationships end because you can't stop hating each other - at least from a personal perspective. Some of my relationships have ended because we just fell out of love. For example, my ex and I are still friends but we fell out of love with each other because of various factors such as distance.

Talking about the issues is really important. When you talk, you should try to maintain calm - because as soon as one person points the finger and gets hysterical the flood gates of hell will open. :p

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None of my past relationships have ended because of hating each other. I think they all have been due to growing apart and taking different directions in life. If you stop sharing common goals, it becomes impossible to share a life together.

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