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Dr. Josh Klapow's picture

Friends- why are they are so important to the quality of our lives? When things are going well in a friendship life is good-- but what happens when friendships take a turn for the worse? I see many people who are devistated by failed friendships. Has this happend to you? I'd like to hear your story.. Maybe I can help.

Have you been betrayed by a friend?
Has a long friendship slowly rotted away?
Have you lost a friend because of a breakup, an affair, a divorce?

How have you managed? Are you struggling?

Let me help.

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I find that there are a lot of variables that determine how long friendships last. Career and family have a great deal of influence, causing people to move away or become more inward focused. Life stage exerts an influence, too: as I've grown and prospered, I've changed the nature of the people I spend time with.

Over the years, I have lived in many different places in Europe and Asia and even the East Coast. Gradually over time, I have fallen out of contact with many of the friends I had in those faraway places.

In recent years I have begun to reach out and connect with people whom I was previously close to whom I've fallen out of touch with. I find it's a genuine delight to reconnect and discover how they've fared. This is a real personal pleasure.

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