My motivation is to embrace the alone time that I have now. Not craving to be with an ex from my past and not longing to be with... read more

Of couse I can live my life alone. I am fiercly independent and proud. Maybe that's my problem. I need a little more faith... read more

If you are back in the dating world and tempted to settle into a relationship out of comfort, or need help reading your feelings... read more

There's a lot of pressure placed upon people to be in relationships. We're bombarded with television adverts prompting us to join... read more

After years of trial and error, I figured out what the most important qualities are in a potential mate, the non-negotiable eliminators,... read more

I wasn't sure where to post this entry. I'm not married and the kind of relationship I want goes beyond "dating." I'm not one... read more

Be strong. Don’t call. Don’t email. Don’t “accidentally” bump in to each other. Time and distance is what heals. It hurts like... read more

New York is a great walking city. While I lived there, I never rode the subway, not even once. If you don't have to leave Manhattan,... read more

Ask clear questions and listen to the answers. Pay attention to body language and, most importantly, pay attention to what isn't... read more

The best way to do this is to keep the holy spirit between you at all times! Just kidding. No seriously, don't have too much... read more