It would definately be never experiencing the ice pick under the rib cage feeling of hating the one I love. I'm the type of person that puts everyone before myself. Getting my way is a stupid thing to end a relationship over. If I truly love the person I'm with, then nothing's worth losing them over. My husband means the world to me, and he's pretty good with compromising. We're good with making sure we both get what we want, so we can maintain and happy and healthy marriage.