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Tips on Effective Parenting
Tips:
1. Learn and improve parenting skills by reading, attending classes, and networking.
2. Get to know each child as an individual as each kid has a unique personality.
3. Make time every day to "be" with your child and be fully present.
4. Listen, listen, listen.
5. Be a role model. Actions speak louder than words.
6. Have integrity and keep your word no matter what. Your child will learn to trust you.
7. Keep a schedule and routine. Help your child be self-disciplined and responsible.
8. Take time for yourself. By caring for yourself, you have the energy to care for others.
No one is perfect, so be realistic in your expectations. You will make lots of mistakes. We're all on a learning curve. There is only one exquisite child in the whole world and every parent is blessed with that child. Be proud of your title of Mom or Dad. You'll work hard to earn it.
Sometimes what you don't say is critical. Watch your body language. Make sure you differentiate between the person and the action. Always find the good in your child and keep the doors of communication open. You will be challenged, pushed, and distressed...it's part of parenting. One of the most important qualities is to maintain a sense of humor. Laugh alot.
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I think this is such an overlooked point. I'm exceedingly sensitive to my environment and I know it's because one of my parent's could cut ice with a glare or could step into the room and change the temperature before actually arriving.
Sometimes words and actions are irrelevant. No matter what you say or do, it's HOW it's said and HOW it's done.
So right Amanda about body language. Often our mouths say words, but our bodies indicate something completely different which gives our child (or anyone for that matter) a mixed message. Get out a video recorder and tape yourself saying a variety of things. When you watch back the tape, ask yourself if your body language matches your words.
And another tip about words-be careful what you say as you can never take back what you have said. As I always tell my children, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, and words can break my heart." Be attentive!
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