Sometimes you fight because you love too much

I'm not crazy, I swear. Sometimes when you live together, and see eachother all the time, little things start feeling like big things that you just can't stand. You start picking at little things and balloon them into giant bags of hot air. But later on you realize, it is indeed just air. Just blowing off a little steam seems to escalate into bigger issues by the way he said something, or by the way I react to a simple statement.
Why is that? I love this man. There is nothing that I wouldn't do for him, yet sometimes even the slightest touch from him repulses me. He makes me soo angry sometimes, that when I lay in bed to go to sleep, I start wondering how long I can go without kissing him, or touching, or even yet talking. Then I awake and everything goes back to normal.
But does it? Those fights always snowball into the next arguement, and then the next. All the magazines and articles I've read say that couples argue about 3 things the most. Sex (check) Money (check) and Chores or housework (check). How do we survive these inevitable arguements? With someone as stubborn as I, it is virtually impossible to get in a word when I'm angry.
Is this relationship just destined for doom? I wouldn't say that it is. I mean we work through the fights and arguements. None of them have been about real serious issues such as rape, cheating, lying, or deceit. So am I crazy to make a big deal out of silly arguements? I need some advice....
Help...