Too often we think we have successfully compromised or negotiated an issue with a loved one and, in fact, we have actually given up, given in or settled.

Giving up and giving in are signs that you feel powerless and undeserving. Anger and resentment are sure to follow.

Settling is often the result of you not recognizing that your thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, needs and wants are legitimate.

Compromise is often a middle way between two extremes. Negotiation is often a discussion in which each person decides what and how much to concede or accommodate and mutually agree to the outcome.

The art of compromising and negotiating requires that two or more people combine the qualities or elements of different things and reach consent by mutual agreement.

Compromising and negotiating can only occur when you honor and respect your thoughts, attitudes, values, beliefs, needs and wants, hopes and dreams and deem them legitimate; are able and willing to ask for what you need and want; and are able and willing to receive what you have asked for.

Call timeout on giving up, giving in and settling. Go for fully honoring who you are and design and live your best life and love life!

Remember, only you can make it happen!