Why do you suppose that intelligent, capable and otherwise successful men and women do not tell the truth when they no longer want to spend time together with another person?

Men and women from around the world tell me the very same thing:
• I don’t want to hurt her feelings
• I can’t just reject him, he’s such a nice guy
• People say I’m being too picky. I am actually very lucky to be dating him

Please remember you are dating. Dating is a process. You are dating to find your ideal match. Recognizing that the men and women you are dating are not a match for you is the point of the process.

It is likely that you will date a number of people who will not be your ideal match before you find the love of your life. As soon as you recognize that your date is not your ideal match, stop the dating process.

You will not be the ideal match for the majority of people who date you! When men or women you date recognize that you are not a match for them, they will (hopefully) stop the dating process.

There is no “rejection” going on here. No one is being mean or hurting the feelings of others when one stops dating someone who is not the ideal match.

Say goodbye as soon as you know what you know, deep in the place where you know it!

Remember, only YOU can make it happen!