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Romantic Ideas- Have a Threesome?!
Dear Jen,
We're an attractive married couple in our late 30's and I, the husband, am writing this. Like most men, I would love to engage in a threesome with an attractive woman and my wife. My wife would be interested (aside from the fact that she'd probably have some firm ground rules on penetration) and has a "short list" of people, celebs and porn stars, that she would get it on with.
The best way to get involved in a threesome is to scout for potential prospects, right? Where would a couple in the NYC area find a "swingers" party, first just to watch couples having sex (a turn on), and then maybe later to get involved?
Plus, any other ideas on how to get my wife interested? She loves sex and even watches porn with me, but is not really into the threesome idea unless the perfect person is involved. She doesn't have many close women friends, and I think it would have to be an outsider the first time anyway. Your thoughts?
- Three's Company
Dear Company,
Oh that I had a nickel for every time some guy wrote in asking how he can convince his girlfriend/wife/any woman, really, to get it on with another chick. It's like watching parents attempt to get their kid to eat Brussels sprouts. There you all are, eagerly sliding a steamy plate of girl on girl porn in front of them, standing back, eyebrows raised and fingers twiddling with anticipation, hoping, just praying that they'll take the bait.
Meanwhile, your wife is ho hum. Sounds interesting, I guess, but she has to be Angelina Jolie and I have to be in the mood and she can't have bigger boobs than I do and it has to be on a leap year. Can you please pass the salt? Then she forgets it was ever mentioned while your heart skips a beat every time she speaks to another woman at the supermarket. Do women even realize the power they have? Do they have any idea that they've erased each and every other thought from your minds by not throwing a lamp at you and screaming "pervert!" at the mere suggestion of such a thing?
The good news is she's not opposed to it. The bad news is her list is short and contains people you'll have to become a movie start to meet. Not a very good sign if you ask me. If she's game, though, taking her to swingers clubs is a great idea. I just googled "swingers clubs NY" and found pages of possibilities for you. There are also a slew of dating sites if you google "swingers". However you choose to go about it, I suggest that you let her lead the way, pick the woman and decide where you can and can not stick it (which you seem to be very open to). When it comes to convincing someone to do something, there's only so far you can go before you become an irritant. So make some suggestions, calmly call her attention to the possibility when it arises and then leave it alone. You want to get your threesome, but you don't want to ruin your twosome trying.
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This is great info for married couples, but what chance do the single guys have?
Especially if you hang out on college campuses!
threesome is every guy's fantasy. however, it really isn't all that its cracked up to be, guys seem to take a more of a observer role in the process. WARNING : if you do this with your gf / wife, be prepared for the aftermath. things will change.
me sexy naughty wifey, him studly dirty boy.... we're married, he knew i was bi from the start, and it was just a matter of time before the desire grew so strong for both of us that we went prowling together and had our first menage a trois. MY ADVICE: START BY WATCHING AND TALKING ABOUT REAL LIVE GIRLS, IF THE ACTUAL NECESSARY PASSION IS THERE, THIS WILL BE YOUR LAUNCHING PAD. THE MORE SHE FEELS COMFORTABLE IN SHARING HER FANTASIES WITH YOU, THE HOTTER SHE WILL FIND THE POSSIBILITIES. TAKE A TOTAL GUY APPROACH WITH THE OTHER WOMAN.... SHE IS NOT TO BE PART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP, SHE IS JUST A HOT PIECE, A FLAVOR OF THE WEEK. MAKE YOUR LEADING LADY FEEL LIKE A WICKED QUEEN WHO CONTROLS THE LUST OF OTHER WOMEN AND GIVES PLEASURE AS SHE SEES FIT. THIS CONFIDENCE IS KEY IN HER (AND YOUR) SATISFACTION.
oh yeah: WHEN YOU DO FIND YOURSELF IN A REAL THREESOME SITUATION, LET THE GIRLS WARM UP AND EXPLORE EACH OTHER FIRST FOR AS LONG AS THEY LIKE, AND THEY WILL SOON COME AFTER YOU!!!
well i love what eveyone had said my thing is my husband is wainting a threesum and i want to but im afraid he just might be in to this girl more then me so i dont want my feelings to be hurt but at the same time i like girls but i want her to be sexy sweet and truthful with us it would be just a one time girl and we cant no her so there no drama thinking one of us is cheating lol well without each other well anyways i really do not feel ok with him doing her in the vgina or going down on her which that i really wouldt mint but he doest even do that to me knowing i like it lol well from what i can rember anything else im up for more so for me and this sexy lady i find someone soon i hope i see me and this girl having fun and yes my guy to i just hope hes more into me then ever cause right now r sex life not very great its just lke real fast and over with no kissing holding touching or anything so im hoping to live up r i mean sex life he saids hes ok with the way it is i dont belive him and the sad thing is im only just turn 25 and im very pretty and sexy so i hear from many people besides my guy well sometimes he well say i look good but its not enough and hes a very good looking guy he is bout to be 31 so if anyone reads this what do u think should i do this my guys saids he dont care either way but i think he does yes he has had one like 6 years ago but it was a real threesum if u understand i no i would enjoy the one i give him but i have to fine the right girl for a guy that saids it doest matter to him keeps bringing up him doing her as she u no me i know he hast been with another girl since we been to gather and im the frist girl friend well real one anyways we been togather for over four years and its time to spice r sex life way up i hope this wont hurt us we have kids so wish us luck for when that day comes so i better get looking for r open good wierd and very clean lady friend sorry little more for who might read this and care should i let him have sex with this girl we have never done this before well i no i havet he used to have lots or sex and get like over 100 differnt girls to do oral i just aslo found all this out so im not sure y we have not a very good sex life if before i came in his like he had a pretty big one thank god he uses condoms at all times but im not sure how to feel bout the new news that i found out just last night lol sorry im ready for fun and pray my guy well start waking up in r bed cause i can have some fun just if he would acted like he wants to but threesum well . ....for me anyways fun fun cant wait need good slow hot and fun sex any hot ladys read this reply live in oklahoma city must be over 25 younger then 35 my guys likes older ladys well not old but he wants me to see what it would be like not being mean but this girl im looking for must be thin not to thin any very nice boobs lol i like boobs and either dark brown hair or blonde well its open just no red red hair just not in to that pluse this sexy lady im looking for needs to be more in to girls then guys thats my long sad but soon to be fun like THIS IS FOR ANYONE TO REPLY BUT IF YOUR HOT AND WANTING TO HAVE SOME FUN AND U BEEN WITH GIRLS AND GUYS SOMEWHAT HIS DICK IS MINE MABE WELL SEE HOW THINGS PLAY OUT
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