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I love being married, and in a committed relationship, but its been a while, and although I was in a relationship this spring that seemed to be going that way, it didn't pan out. I was very upset, but I also realized that I loved being loved and giving love. I don't want to spend the best years of my life alone.
Ideas about where to meet good guys that are compatible with my highest goals, how to find the emotional balance as things heat up...and to watch for the 'road' bumps...
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Hello L-
I admire your resolve and dedication. It takes guts to attach a date on something like this, so bravo to you!
Our expert, Helena Rosenberg posted a useful tip under "dating." She advised, "do the things you love doing -- for yourself and your own personal growth -- and companionship will follow."
I took her advice and have had some chance encounters with screen-writers and with well-known actors who have healthy outlooks on life. I recently began practicing Buddhism and have met some dynamic characters within that realm as well.
So, what do you love to do most? Do what you love and you'll find that special person who loves it as well.
Best of Luck!
Hi Amanda,
I have to admit - I've been doing that, but maybe it's too narrow - I go to tons of film screenings and events - but I will try to broaden my scope a bit and try things that edge me further out there!
I believe we'll keep repeating the same lessons by attracting the same people to us until we learn. What have you learned from your past relationship? Or, how would you like your new relationship to be different than the previous one?
Jillian
Hi Latina Director,
My first coach used to say "We are the ones we've been looking for." To me, this doesn't mean be happy alone, as much as it means to find and express what we want ourselves, so we are less needy. That tends to attract exactly what we want into our lives. And we are already whole so when someone shows up to accept our invitation we are free and able to respond.
So...what are your highest goals. Start playing there.
keep bringing soul into it,
sharon
Sharon Rich (www.soulincorporated.net) engages people in a completely new conversation about —and relationship with—Self and Body , which results in profound shifts in all aspects of life.