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We all experience unpleasant conditions that cause us stress. If the condition could be eliminated, it’s called a toleration (this is Coach U term).
A toleration is: the rug you trip over every day, biting your nails, a messy desk, a complaining co-worker.
These conditions can be fixed, eliminated, organized, or avoided.
The first step in eliminating your tolerations is to make a Tolerations List. Areas to examine are:
• Work
• Relationships
• Yourself
• Your Environment
Once you’ve made your list, look for the tolerations that will be easy to eliminate or eliminate your three biggest tolerations.
The benefits of eliminating your tolerations are:
• Reduced frustration and anxiety
• More energy
• An un-cluttered perception of life and the beauty in it
• More freedom
People who clear up tolerations often find that it opens up space for their creativity and intuition. Tara Gupta, Wellness Coach, “As soon as I got rid of just a few tolerations I had a feeling of openness and space.”
It may take some work to eliminate your tolerations, but reducing your stress is worth it.
Look for Part 2 of this series on reducing your stress in which I will discuss more ways to eliminate your tolerations so that you can become a toleration free zone.
Great reminder Donna! All these little things we tolerate add up and play in the background of our lives, kind of like really annoying muzac. Whenever I want to get something accomplished and I find myself unable to get to it I take some time to list and begin eliminating tolerations to make space for what I want to accomplish or bring into my life. So, it's kind of like having to clear your plate to get dessert!
I have been working on getting more in touch with my heart and truly hearing what it is telling me. Each morning I close my eyes and set an intention for the day, “it will be a lovely, calm, joyful day in which I help my clients to feel the same way.” For the past two days as I finished this thought, I felt a strong urge to clean my desk (yes, I did let it get messy!) It was as if the clutter on my desk was blocking the lovely energy in my heart. I cleaned my desk today, and I can hear my heart more clearly, it is saying: today is a truly lovely day!
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