Parenting 101: Help Your Kids Develop Perspective

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Posted by Dr. Mark Goulston on August 30, 2007 12:20 PM PDT
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If you still read a story to your children at night, first ask them: "What was the best and worst thing that happened to you today?" Listen to what they say, and respond with "Wow, that's great" to the good stuff, and "Gee, really, I'm so sorry you felt upset by that" to the bad stuff. Don't give advice unless they ask for it. Then ask them: "What are you most looking forward to tomorrow and what are you most nervous about? Hear them out the same way as with the first question.

This exercise helps your child develop perspective to see that both good and bad things happen every day.

NEXT: Parenting 102: Perseverence

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