I believe that I have been blessed with the gift of discernment along with an ability to effectively communicate to people important issues they NEED to hear, but not necessarily WANT to hear. I pride myself on accomplishing this by infusing humor when appropriate, practicing tough love when warranted and without harming a person's self-esteem or self-concept. It doesn't make me any stronger, to attempt to make someone weaker. In life, we never get a wasted day back and with that in mind the relationships in our life are precious, fragile and must matter to us, every moment of every day. Each day we live in fear, is a day half-lived and that is why I have chosen to share the most candid, thoughtful and genuine advice that I able to deliver. At the end of the day, it is the only way that I can look in the mirror and be proud of who I am and what I do.
I believe that people learn best when they are involved in their own educational process, thus I highly encourage people to share their thoughts, opinions, strategies and questions as they deem appropriate. To be involved in a loving relationship that stands the test of time, you must practice the characteristics found in healthy relationships, experience the three types of love (physical, heartfelt and friendship) and be of sound mind, body and spirit, which is why I hope that you will take time to visit and interact with many of the other experts involved with PeopleJam.