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Happy happy birthday to me

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By: Sue Copper (see more of Sue Copper's blogs)

OK, this seems a little scary for some reason, but I'm going to admit it anyway. My birthday will be in my face in a couple of weeks and I'll be 60. This is the first time telling my age has ever seemed scary, and I'm not sure why that's so. In my ever-young mind, I'm 20. Or 30. Or 60, what does it matter? So what's 60 all about? I feel great, don't look too bad after all these years, except for those darned inner thighs, I'm still curious about everything, I love my life, I have a loving 30-year-long marriage and a renewal of vows two months ago on our anniversary, so many wonderful fun things in my life to ponder! So why in the world would 60 be scary? It's just a number.....a number with a stigma attached. We retire at 62 or 65. We are old in our 70's. Some time after that, we die, right? Oh, is that all it is? Well I have a few things left to do for the next 30 years or so and then I guess I can handle that. So maybe 60 isn't so scary after all, now that I've given it some thought. Happy happy birthday to me! And to you.

I was wondering why this particular birthday stands out when none of my others have. And now I know that 60 is a number that reminds me that I have already lived a long life, but one that I'm proud and thankful to have lived, even the hard parts. Approaching 60 also reminds me that there are probably many years left in my life, and I need to live with more awareness than I did in my youth, enjoy each moment that comes, do those things I've always wanted to do. All of the experiences in my life, good and bad, have now culminated into my being a life coach, a guide to help others along their path. I am so very grateful to have found my life's purpose. I can be grateful for being 60.

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Its true! And..50 is the new 40 and 40 is the new 30 and so on. As a collective group, I do believe we are not only living longer, but getting younger because we are redefining life.

Gone are the days when 65 meant retirement, people are just starting new careers at that age. People in their 30s are single and don't own houses. People in their 40s are just putting their first kids in school.

Its a whole new world out there, much different then the ones we knew to be true at 20. I applaud your ability to not hold onto that old vision of 60 and instead redefine what this age is for you.

Happy Birthday to you in all your wisdom, insight, and experience..
may you have many more in all the years to come.
smiles. beth

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Happy Birthday Sue!! MUAH!! Hooray for you. Get yourself a great birthday present. Get this book! Trust me, you'll love it. I sent it to my mother, she thought she wouldn't like it, but then she was calling me, eager to talk about it and thanking me for sending it to her.

It truly empowered her when she was going through a rough time and I'm sure that you will be feeling REGAL AT 60 by the time you're through with it.

So pick it up and write a birthday wish to yourself in it. It's called.......

"Goddesses in Older Women: Archetypes in Women over Fifty."

Wishing you lots of laughter all the time for as long as you live, you Goddess, you!

Cheers!

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I can tell from your post that you have a big heart and a youthful attitude. You are brave to be so open and vulnerable on PeopleJam. You are going to be fine. Live life, enjoy, and happy birthday!

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