Many brides have their own idea of how their wedding will take place, but that doesn't mean the groom can't help. Offer to make phone calls, get price quotes, or arrange for samples to be delivered. Help organize any information your bride-to-be has gathered. Attend appointments when possible, and provide honest opinions and input, even if they aren't used. There is a big difference between saying, "I don't care" and "I think that looks lovely."

Planning the wedding together will bring you closer as a couple, as it can reflect how the two of you will handle future life events, even when it only affects one person. Sometimes knowing there is another who is available to support you through a particular time is helpful enough.