Get Off His Path -- Permanently

My husband is a full-time law student in an accelerated program in LA. It's his mid-life crisis of sorts. He left a job in banking that was unfulfilling to follow a new found passion--wills and trusts. His motivation, to help people and problem solve for them. Enter, THE WIFE, AKA, me. My energy tends to be the dominant in our relationship, and I proposed that my exceptionally bright hubby might want to pursue something that would challenge him everyday. Well, that was about 7 months ago and he's been miserable ever since. The other night I asked him why he was in law; assuming he'd lost his passion. His eyes lit up as he recounted his original vision of being a wills and trusts attorney. I GOT IT!! I backed off his path and he is refreshed and rejuvenated. He even had his first interview today -- the Universe's way of letting us know he's on track! I cannot let my fears and worries dictate his path. . . . I intend to check my motivations each time I want to make a suggestion and do my part in helping him feel more empowered in his own decisions (even though I can be really persuasive).

A stronger partnership with my husband. A relationship where we both feel safe and supported and able to realize our own dreams -- no matter the significance to the other person.