Combine dating with the life you want

Become a new you.
Identify what role you are playing now and how you would like that to change.
Hold a strong intent to become this new version of you.
Set new boundaries based on how you want people to treat you from this moment forward.
Post key words at home, in your office, in your car that will remind you of how you want to show up in the world.
Ask friends and family for help in supporting you in this new role.
Allow yourself moments of resorting to old behaviors without judgement. If you find you are in old patterns of thought or behavior, say a kind word to yourself and take a moment to envision the new you.

We all change roles all of the time subconsciously. The victim becomes the hero, the attention grabber becomes a supporter. But sometimes we consciously realize that we are in a role that doesn't feel good anymore. Then what? We all need tips and guidance as we strive to be the best, most evolved version of ourselves. Try these tips and see if you can nudge yourself towards a life role that feels more authentic.