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By: Amy Applebaum User is an Expert (see more of Amy Applebaum's blogs)

Why celebrities care what the public thinks…
As a breakthrough expert in Hollywood…I have the opportunity to work with many of these celebrities and I think it’s important for us to realize that their careers and lives are defined by the public. Their opinions affect these people’s lives; the quality of them as well as their pocketbooks. The celebs are dependent on them…when they lose that attention…they feel like they lose their edge, their position in life, their identity…

Why is the public so obsessed about these celebrities:
They are living our dreams
They are living our problems
That’s why, as a whole, when a celebrity chooses to reveal their problem publicly and then chooses to solve the problem…we, as a public, for the most part, root them on. We root them on because…they are not that different from us…we relate to them.

What’s gone wrong with some of these celebrities:
For the most part…these celebrities aren’t that different than all of us. They have problems just like we do. They have problems in their relationships, they have problems with their weight, they have problems in their careers, problems with their mothers and fathers and with their children…they have problems with substance abuse.

With someone like Britney, the problem gets magnified because it’s exposed on television over and over again… on every news show and celebrity entertainment show. And to make matters worse…people around celebrities don’t want to say no to them so they are catered to and it becomes harder for them to deal with their problems in a real way.

So…It’s not so much that something has gone wrong with them or that they have a problem…it’s just that their problem gets aired in the media 6 times a day.
How Can they get better and healthier
As a life coach and breakthrough expert in Hollywood, I see this all the time.
What most people tend to do when they have a problem is “live in the problem”
And… most of the time they are set up to live in the problem:

-It’s being thrown in their face by the media as we spoke about
-They are talking about their problem
-They are analyzing it
-They are Sharing it with others
-They are in and out of therapy
-They are in and out of rehab
-They read book after book
-They attend program after program

All of this actually keeps the problem alive.

For me… It’s all about Breaking-Through the problem as quickly as possible. So I focus on BREAKTHROUGH rather than the problem and I give them very specific steps to do that….
I can’t emphasize enough the importance of focusing on Breakthrough. Because when you are focused on the problem…you can’t get past the problem. When you are focused on Breaking through the problem…the solutions present themselves.

***I’m very aggressive that’s why you have to be really ready to “deal with” and “give up” the problem immediately. I have people experiencing life differently in 90 days. From girls overcoming anorexia, to increasing your income substantially to repairing damaged relationships…it’s all possible when someone is really ready to start doing what it takes to live an amazing life

 

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