Blame: Put your money where your mouth is!

Why not have a "blame" jar and play a game where you put $1 in the jar every time you blame your partner. If you really want to eradicate blame, enlist your partner to call you out everytime you blame him/her.

This works for two reasons. One, my consciousness is raised to the cost of blame and I get to look at what feelings I have underneath my blame. Two, if I want to save money, I will find other ways to communicate my hurts and upsets.