We just got through a very nasty divorce. I still do not know why it had to be so difficult, but what is done is done. One of the best out come of our marriage is my daughter who is 10 going to 50. I am internet dating this lady in russia (long story)and thinking that if things would work I might consider marriage. So I ask my daughter her thoughts on the subject for several reasons(as many of you can guess feeling the waters). Her first comment out of her mouth is "are you nuts do you want to go through that again?". So asking for more details is do you want another divorce was that not paonful enough? who could argue with that logic. I have to admit I am still talking to the lovely lady in russia, but I am far more cautious now than before our conversation. Perhaps what she is telling me is be careful not to get into the same mess again.

It open my eyes! As much as I want a wife, lover and friend but be careful because you do not want to end in the same place. Take your time for me as well as for her.