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Wussy Boys: Why Some Guys Can't Pull the Break Up Trigger
Warning! Warning! Guy with no balls entering the room!
No, that's not a joke! That's a guy who is to chicken shit to break up with his better half for "who knows what" reason. They are rare in this world of anti-commitment minded, single for life professionals who refuse to be tied down.
Although, when you do happen to stumble upon one of these guys (I use the word "guys" loosely), you can't help but wonder what makes this guy tick.
Picking them out of a crowd isn't that hard if you know what you're looking for. The guy who's way too skinny and would need a cattle prod to get a boner because his wife has sucked the marrow out of his soul so often that he's nothing but a mere shell of a man. On the other end of the spectrum, we have the young, pussy whipped kid following his girl around like she's the best thing since sliced bread trying to do every little thing to please her.
Enough!
Gents, it's time to grow a big ol' pair of brass balls that would make the most egotistical of men clap with envy! However, if you've been under the mystical spell of the wicked witch of your bedroom, chances are you don't even know what you're doing wrong. If you belong to any of the following categories, get your ball busting boots on, because it's time to ditch the witch.
I'm helpless without her.
Good god you momma's boy. Did you not listen to the "Grow a Pair" comment? Would you like a bottle and a diaper change while you're at it? You don't even deserve to be dating, so you can just go away. Dismissed!
I'm too old to be single.
Give me a break! With the divorce rate of 50%, there has got to be a few million divorced honies out there looking for a replacement, so get your ass moving. Come up with a real excuse like you can't get it up next time.
The Sex is too Good?
All of us, at one time or another, have gotten hold of a hot mamacita that drove us to the brink of insanity thanks to her ability to curl our toes. It's always nice to have that one girl that makes you sweat pure testosterone, but just because she makes your mojo boil, it's no reason to be at her beck and call. There is always another girl out there somewhere that can do the same for you. Never, ever, fall victim to the powers of the Pink Taco!
What if she is the best I can ever get?
Good question! The alternative to actually answering this question entails you banging your head against a wall (not in the good way) for the next 40 years asking yourself "Why did I stick around", when you really wanted to be strutting your stuff looking for the perfect future Mrs. You!
Point is, if you are miserable, chances are that she is miserable too. No need to stick around for the emotional carnage when you have a perfectly good explanation for hitting the door right?
Then again, if you're the kind of guy that can ignore everything and everyone around you, and somehow manage to live life through your penis (lucky bastard!), maybe keeping that hot mamacita around isn't such a bad thing after all!
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Hey there VTCastle - It takes two to tango ! I was completely crushed by a man I was in love with - but knew it probably wasn't going to make it and I was becoming miserable. Unfortunately, I hung in there longer than I knew was good for me - and in the end, he ran off with someone else without even telling me. I actually confronted him with some honest dialog, but he chickened out. So, all the great stuff we shared - is clouded over by the fact the he was such a coward and couldn't even man-up enough to break it off in an honest and clean way before starting something new. This is the kind of man that always has to have a back up! I'm not going to fight for a man who doesn't want me - all I need to know is, "hey, I'm done - this isn't right for me." I'm not talking about a wussy boy here - I'm talking about a 48 year old man! So the first thing I did was tell my boys (teenagers) - "don't be that guy - if it's not right for you, it's not right for either - tell the truth up front and be true to yourself." They don't need to be bastards about it... just lay it out there - be truthful. It's better for all in the long run, and more respectful. As for me, I won't let things go so long next time if it's not happening. Sometimes the woman has to make the break as well - and not hang in there for a man who doesn't want to show up. OUCH!
~torchginger
Hey Ginger. I completely agree w/ you. I don't have the cojones to tell women to "grow a pair" in such a blatant method as above, but being a guy I see it all the time with many of my guy friends. Thanks for the comment, hope you enjoyed the article. -- VT
Even though I said it is a two way road - what I was saying was that women Need the Men to have their own pair in tact... often times, when the men wuss out, is when the women become the "bitches" you want to run away from... know what I mean?? It's a two way dance. Women need their men to be men, so that the woman can be the woman. Hopefully this means both have self respect as well as respect for one another! Glad you're getting this message out to your guy friends!
~torchginger
Some guys just can't handle being alone!
Wow, this is a different thought. I always thought that it was the women who had the difficult time breaking up. Honestly, I am one of those needy women and I really love being in a relationship. Maybe that's why I thought this way, but from my experience, I haven't had too many cases when the guys I dated were "wussy boys".
The beginning of this blog comes off as women-hating, and that was a big turn off to me and almost made me stop reading. However, you saved yourself in my eyes when you said if you are miserable, chances are that she is miserable too." This is very true. Relationships go both ways and have to work for both parties, even if one is the taker and one the giver.
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