Single Working Mom Wants to Try Again

Posted by BusyMom1960 on June 15, 2007 12:50 PM PDT

Recommend this? YES NO

My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago after I caught him in bed with my best friend. It was incredibly painful. I have basically been a single parent to our two teenage sons and work full-time. Miraculously, I met a wonderful new man through my work.

I truly feel blessed to have him in my life. He’s been hinting around about marriage and starting a new family. After the double betrayal I experienced, I am understandably nervous about being hurt again. I know this man isn’t my ex-husband, but how do I overcome my fear and learn to trust enough to move into the next logical stage of our relationship?

I will trust again and feel secure in my relationship.

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4 Comments

That's a great question. In a way, I would say actually go with the fear at first. See how it feels just to really feel it, rather than put it down or bury it. If he's a strong man, he can take it.

Posted by Bruce60 on June 18, 2007 5:19 AM PDT

I think you're courageous for taking a risk after such a painful double betrayal. If he loves you as much as he seems to, talk to him, he'll understand. And who knows, it just may deepen your bond...

Posted by KaciorekM3293 on July 15, 2007 6:48 PM PDT

I think it's a great opportunity here. This guy knows about you and your sons, and you say that you're blessed to have him. If he makes you feel so good, I think you should talk to him and your sons. I hope all this works out well for you! Good luck!

Posted by leyameera on November 18, 2008 9:01 PM PST

You have to let go and let GOD. You are already on the right track, just take your time. You also have a positive outlook on the situation and you seem as though you are in control. That is WONDERFUL! Your new friend seems as though he is understanding of your situation also and is willing to wait for you to feel more comfortable. Keep going on your steady pace and you will be fine! Congrats on finding new love.