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No one likes to think of themselves as being in a dysfunctional relationship, but at one time or another, all of us have experienced these feelings. We all do it wrong until we learn how to do it right. Here a few things to think about. Dysfunctional relationships make you feel bad about yourself. When you feel bad about yourself...
Acknowledging true feelings is the beginning of change. You cannot move to a place that works from a place that doesn't work unless you are willing to be brutally honest this present moment.
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There is some good information on this blog. Fortunately my relationship doesn't have any of these aspects, but from previous experience I can say that these 11 symptoms are definitely signs of a dysfunctional relationship. Thanks.
I like how this blog lists symptoms in a clear fashion. Thankfully, I didn't check any of them off! Phew! I do think there are other symptoms of being in a unhealthy relationship, but these are biggies. I think it's a good blog to read, for anyone. It may shock some people into realizing "this is me" and it may help others in the future. Thank you!
I think this is an informative blog that analyzes and lists the symptoms of a dysfunctional relationship. I like it's clarity.
I like the way everything is written out in a very clear format, with bold font to draw attention to each area. It's important people recognize the symptoms of a dysfunctional relationship, if they ever wish to have a functional one!
This is a very well-written written blog. Anyone who's been in a dysfunctional relationship before knows that much of what is mentioned on this blog does sadly occur. This blog is very concise and clear, making it informative and an easy read.
this is a very concise statement about dysfunctional relationships. to be honest, i wish i had had something as straightforward as this list 2 years ago, when my sister was contemplating divorce. it would have at least given me something to lay out in front of her, instead of just pleas to leave her husband.
Oh, these are soooo true! If only we could see these things for ourselves when we're in the relationship! This makes for a great checklist of things to watch for!
Your blog is so completely true, I'm not in a relationship with those qualities now, but almost everyone before now has. It's ashame to see all the people today that are unhappy with their love life but do nothing to stop it.. Great advice in this article.
The first step of having a better life with a good relationship is to acknowledge that you are in a dysfunctional relationship. Your blog is specific enough that readers are able to understand and and reevaluate their own relationships. I like your blog.
I whole-heartedly agree with this blog. People don't seem to understand when they're in a dysfunctional relationship, so they never know when to get out of it. This blog helps them understand that. It clears everything up enough for them to make a clear and regretless decision. This article in a winner, by far.
This is a very insightful post. You made some very great points ring very clearly in my mind.One that I find to be particularly striking:
"guilt is not a real feeling (it is really resentment). We feel guilt when we do things we do not want to do, and then when we think of stopping doing what we don't want to do,- we feel guilty."
Thank you, for sharing this.
What a great blog article! I think copies should be posted in women's restroom stalls all across the country. Thanks for sharing this with us readers!
What a great article! I am not in a personal relationship like this but I have been in business relationships that had many of the same symptoms. I never saw it till a friend listened to me one day and told me that I was actually in an "abusive relationship" with a client...when I actually started thinking about it and again after reading your wonderful post, it was true. Thankfully once my eyes were open things got better and I no longer have this business relationship anymore.
Just wanted to point out that relationships can include business people and people we know at work or work with on a daily basis.
It was an eye opener for me, when my friend pointed it out.
Thanks for a great article.
Thank you. I think this is helpful to people who may be in denial about the health of their relationships. I've seen each of these points illustrated in one of my relationships and it is just validation that things don't feel right for a reason. It doesn't feel right because it isn't.
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