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It’s official: we’re all homebodies -- lately, anyway. According to a Pew Center for People and the Press poll in this Sunday’s New York Times Magazine, 59% of respondents said the recent economy has led them to cut vacation spending and 55% said it has led them to eat out less often. But while we eat at home, there’s no reason to eat at home alone. Breaking bread with friends is a long-standing tradition in most cultures, but in these trying times, the exchange of thoughts and ideas, the commiserating, and the in-person contact that come with in-home hosting – are all more important than ever. The good news? Throwing a dinner party on a dime has never been easier.
FOOD:

Host a potluck. Divide and conquer by having everyone bring one addition to the menu. It’s the modern equivalent of splitting the check, and it makes everyone feel involved and invested in the event.
Mix packaged/canned and fresh. Choose your ingredients to save where you can and splurge where it counts. One specialty item can make the easy-to-find, inexpensive ones shine. Nancy Silverton’s A Twist of the Wrist cookbook is full of examples of this.
Buy local and seasonal. Visit your local farmer’s market for the freshest, most inexpensive products and build your menu on ingredients that are in season now. Find a famer’s market near you.
Choose one-dish meals for a crowd. Having a curry buffet, taco bar, or a big stock pot of chili gets more bang for the buck. Plus, you can invite more people to join in the fun. (And isn’t killing a few birds with one stone as far as your friend list goes being socially prudent, too?)
DRINK:

Keep it simple. Serve wine, beer, and a non-alcoholic punch only. You can buy all the ingredients at a discount warehouse. And go “pot luck” here as well, if you want – most people are fine with contributing a bottle of wine for the cause – and sometimes the mish-mash becomes a party theme in itself.
Bottle service. Set up a do-it-yourself signature cocktail bar, starting with juice and alcohol already mixed in, with all the other fixin’s – from Cassis to herb purees to citrus wedges – on the side. Everyone will be excited to show theirs off, and you’ll conserve your energy and money by focusing on one spirit, rather than a full bar.
Host a blind tasting. Buy several wines under $10 per bottle, cover up the labels, and have a tasting, replete with pencils and paper for people to make their comments.
DÉCOR:

Ditch the florals. Cut flowers can be expensive and don’t last long. Try fruit instead. Pomegranates, persimmons, or even apples or oranges look great as a table centerpiece, on your mantel, in a vase or a bowl, and even as a place card holder (just slice a bit off the bottom, so it won’t roll, and cut a horizontal slit in the top to place your place card.)
Light it up. Use votive candles, which you can buy in inexpensive bulk bags, as the centerpiece of your table and your décor. It looks magical and costs little.
Create an edible centerpiece. Choose a color theme and buy bulk candy and fruit that match it, and then arrange it in the center of your table. Apples and Red Hots, oranges and Reese’s, Snickers and walnuts in their shells – you get the idea.
Personalize it. Focus your energy (and wallet) on décor that makes people feel welcome – by labeling their names wherever possible. Try using place cards or make wine identifiers (write names on a rubber band to go around each wine glass, or put a wine charm and a label and use a paper clip to bend it around the base of each glass).
Double guest gifts as décor. Place a small potted plant at each place with a guest’s name on it – the table will look beautiful, and your friends will have something to remember the evening by.
Finally, save the planet and your pocketbook by calling, emailing, or using online invitations like Evite or Pingg to issue your dinner party invitations. Don’t forget to do the same to thank your hosts the next day!
These are really awesome tips, and trust me, most of them still appear as "professional" as the things you'd normally do! Someone in my family actually recently got married, and we used a lot of these tips for the reception. The table decorations ended up being guest gifts (they were several flowerpots grouped on a pedestal!) and the entirety of the invitations were done over the net! Enjoy your next dinner party!
You're a lifesaver!! Thanks for the tips. The link for finding a farmer's market has made this blog particuarly useful and practical. I would appreciate if you could tell me more on how to set up a cocktail bar. Thanks once again.
I like this article, because not only is it not a good economical time right now and luxuries like dinner parties are put on the backburner, but for someone like me who is filled with anxiety in just the thought of hosting a dinner party, it takes the stress away (especially when I think of the tip about the potluck idea!) Thank you!
You guys are most welcome! RE: the cocktail bar, when I say "starting with juice and alcohol already mixed in," I mean: make a pitcher of Bloody Maries, Cosmopolitans, or simple Run Punch, and then provide mix-in options (like, for the Bloody Maries - celery, Tabasco, Worcestershire -- or citrus wedges and spices for the others.) You will use less alcohol if you make the pitchers in advance, rather than let people add in their own. But make sure to label them!
The title alone made me realize that this would be a helpful article. Thanks so much for posting. I especially liked the idea of mixing canned with fresh. What a good information! During such difficult economic times, sometimes, it's hard to even enjoy and spend time with friends. We need to keep our spirits up and help others with small things like dinner party.
Great tips! I do agree more people are entertaining at home instead of going out to dinner. I especially like the idea of an edible centerpiece! That just sounds fun!
This came just in time, as I'm getting ready to throw a Thanksgiving dinner party. I love the centerpiece idea. Great advice, and much appreciated!
My partner and I have appetizer parties. We have our friends over and each person/couple brings an appetizer and whatever else they feel like. Its great fun, and cheap!
Love all the ideas presented! We're about to host a bunch of holiday gatherings, and these are great tools to tightening the belt, while still looking stylish. And potlucks and farmers markets are a GREAT suggestion.
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