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Never...
Never be:
- too rushed to say, "Thank You"
- too proud to say, "I'm sorry"
- or too angry to say, "Goodnight."
If you are too rushed to say, "Thank you," your relationship is leaning more towards being an arrangement than a relationship. If you're too proud to say, "I'm sorry" and too angry to say, "Goodnight," you'd rather be right than make things better and you're dangerously close to becoming the unforgiving person (you knew in your childhood) that you swore you'd never grow up to be like.
Making the time and effort to show gratitude, care about hurting someone's feelings, and let go of anger instead of hold onto it will feed any relationship.
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My experience is that both genders may sometimes be unwilling to express anger as we have been trained that anger is a "bad" thing. It can be easier to swallow or repress angry feelings to say "goodnight" without resolving the underlying issue. I wonder if we can't evolve your slogan to include "express your anger responsibly so that you can say goodnight"?
Jillian Eichel, M.Ed.
Director of Coaching and Singles Programs
445 East Ohio, Suite 260
Chicago, IL 60611
www.wrightliving.com
I heartily agree with the need to show appreciation and express gratitude for your partner. Everyone wants to feel appreciated and showing it is a way to express love and stay focused on the good things about your partner.
It sounds obvious when I read it here, but how often do I really DO these things in real life? Well, lately I'd have to say "quite often". I've learned how important my relationships are to me and what a great reward can come from just a couple of kind words.
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